Car Alarms: Shutting off car alarm system, car alarm system, starter wire

Question
I read one solution previously described by one of the techs for reseting the alarm to default mode with a valet button/toggle switch.  We have looked all over the car and cannot find the button.  We did find a sort of toggle switch but the directions previously provided did not tell you what the procedure was for a toggle switch-only for a valet button.  Please help!  I just need to know what to do with the switch procedure-wise and also if there is a valet button (since I do not know if the switch I am looking at is actually for the alarm) WHERE it would be located.  Thank you for your help.

Answer
Ok, in this case, key on,
flip the toggle switch in opposite direction,
then turn the key off.

This should reset the alarm, and reset
the grounded relay on the starter wire,
allowing you to start the engine.

At this point, the only thing working would
be the keyless entry from the alarm,
if it came equipped that way.

Just Repeat these steps to place it
back to usable armed mode.
You may get 2 chirps, confirming it,
and the lights may flash twice as well.

That should do it.
Hope so.

ALARMTEK