Towing Issues: 2006 jeep wrangler tj, jeep wrangler tj, jeep towbar

Question
is there an after market bumper somewhere that i can use the d ring mount to
hook my tow bar?

Answer
Most are using the front shackle attachment. It is fairly easy to install here is a link for more information http://www.4wdandsportutility.com/tech/0705_4wd_jeep_towbar_system/index.html I don't know of any that currently offer a complete stock looking aftermarket bumper tow bar setup. Without knowing your budget one could be custom made by road armor  www.roadarmor.com